Relationships are like Shoes

Some relationships are like those beautiful shoes you love but never wear. At first they look so great and you can’t wait to be in them, but after wearing them for awhile, you realize they hurt. They really hurt. You try your hardest, but let’s face it. You aren’t yourself when you wear them.

You buy into the lies. The “I’m just breaking them in” lie, the “they’ll get better in time” lie.

Honestly, those shoes are never gonna work and it’s not because there is anything wrong with your feet. They just aren’t made for you and that’s ok. You’ll find the right shoes and they will match everything. It’s gonna be so great.